For girls, this part is easy. The best first message for a girl to send on POF.com is any message. But for guys, getting a women to even reply to a message is a big thorn in the side for most guys on POF. While this article can't do a thing about your profile or looks, you will learn the best type of first message to send to a lady on Plenty Of Fish to increase the percentage of replies you get.

The good new is that your first message to a girl does not have to be an essay. In fact, keep it brief. Not as brief as Hey There or Whatsup or Wanna Hookup? These types of first messages make you look like a moron and guarantee you will never get replies on any dating site. A sentence or two is fine ...